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Sacred Motherhood

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Before it goes away, before I forget, because "Mama mind", a thousand things, multitasking and sometimes silence...

contemplation... overflowing love*

Simple advice for breastfeeding/ and/ or post partum health:

*trust your body

*eat superfoods (avocado, chia seeds, sesame seeds, hemp seeds, nutritional yeast, , tahini, bananas,eggs,spirulina,soups, wild fish if not vegetarian, reishi mushroom and other chinese tonic herbs medicine)

*oatmeal, coconut oil, soup ( I recommend pumpkin soup) increase the milk flow! There are no problems in adding a little garlic/onions/ginger... turmeric as well... just take care with strong tastes such as cumin, curry and other strong food/spice tastes... beware of salads as well, they don't go well with the milk flow although it might be just a generality and perhaps it is ok for some women...

*the best is to listen to one's own intuition... that intuition is stronger still than during the pregnancy!

*try Magnesium oil, it works wonders... 

*Do not let other people/women stress you or make you think you cannot do it....(those with not so positive attitudes)..... that stress will block the flow and the connection between you and your baby will get more difficult. Only surround yourself with positivity, positive people, trusting people*

*protect your interaction with your baby! Protect the baby from too much outside stress as well ***

*Respect the 40 days/ 6 weeks or longer if needed of the sacred post partum time... It is indeed a vulnerable time. A time the mama needs to adapt to the new life with the baby, plus attend to any healing in herself and let the new life get integrated with the partner as well. I would advise to not have too many people visiting.... stay wild until feeling strong, until rooted in the new reality...

Also because the mama needs to deeply enjoy, completely taste the delicious feeling of the miraculous new life there, feeding at ther breast or just sharing the life with her.. 

*Treat yourself with lots of love, self care, honor and respect.. send a lot of love to your belly :) it might take a long time to come back to how it was before pregnancy... so flowing with the time needed by your body to heal/recuperate is a beautiful idea...

*Make sure you drink lots of teas and water!

*Massage yourself with lavender oil.

*If breasfeeding, massage your breasts everyday***

*Massage baby everyday, I recommend coconut oil :)

*Make sure you sweat out all the water/liquids you have stored during your pregnancy but with patience... it might take months or more... 

if in need to loose weight, the superfoods will help, plus not stressing too much over the weight, sometimes pleasing oneself and other times looking at not eating too much fat... and yet just the necessary for the good milk flow...

*exfoliate your skin, try new beautiful organic shampoo, use coconut oil and aloe vera for your skin... coconut oil for hair care as well.

*walk, stretch....exercise if you can... yoga, meditation, dance if you can..

*Be gentle and kind with yourself...

*Find ways to be totally whole with your baby... to be in the moment... and not loose sight of the miracle that is unfolding right before the eyes...

*Give yourself gifts, do special rituals of passage into Motherhood... talk to Earth, Nature and the Goddess :)

On when the milk flow gets "blocked" in the breasts, forming lumps and hurting, sometimes leading to fever, etc...massage the area well, use breast oil massage for breastfeeding ( Weleda does a good one ), talk to your body, do Reiki if you know how to and most important remedy: make baby drink a lot from the blocked breast, to make it flow once more... eat really well, taking lots of vitamins ( orange juice, etc...), drink beautiful Chai tea ( marvellous Indian recipe, with Ginger :)) for boosting the immune system... Rest, sleep, unwind, do not carry heavy loads, let go of all worries and most importantly don't panic, with good care it goes away quickly... I also recommend a good lavendra oil for extra good sleep and relaxation! 

I recently discovered that Vitamin D is super important for us Mamas; in the early years, we are the source of Vitamin D for the baby....Vitamin D is given by the Sun and by some food, but if one is vegan or vegetarian, one must be really careful to investigate about where to get the Vitamin D, and if taking it from the Sun, to find the correct balance of being nicely in the Sun without burning or without being too much covered in sun cream...I take the time to include this information here after having disovered that despite all my efforts to eat super healthy and balanced and to do lots of outdoor wild nature adventures  I still had a dangerously low Vitamin D level in me...and low Vitamin B12....It affected my gums as I breastfeeded my son for four years... and have been mainly vegetarian.... We are  now eating more fish and eggs and cheese whislt really thanking the Spirit of the Fish and along with other delicious complements such as Spirulina I am taking supplements of Vitamin D and B12...I am feeling better day by day...

Lots of Love from my Mama Heart to Yours!

Lessons from my birth story-

1. Surrender:

it didn't not, at all, happen the way I wanted ( I wished I created I prayed ). Life had another plan for me. Something totally opposite from all I believe in, opposite from my vibe. In the most vulnerable moment of my life I was in the midst of stress, unconscious people, uncaring, distrusting atmosphere of the hospital world. I had to say yes to a birth i thought i would never have, not that way... but the signs of guidance, presence and support of light were there, all the way ( from the way to the hospital until the very end). So i must once and for all admit, say, surrender to Universe and say ok yes it happened that way I trust, I know why.

Let us not forget that the baby also chooses where/when he/she wants to be born... 

2.What does not kill you makes you stronger...

yes yes yes it was that intense, that strong...I almost lost my life.... But i did it , I made it - I birthed my son into the world even if it was with the most horrible cry of pain I have ever experienced in my entire life.

50 hours of Labor, peridural, nerves in total chaos, episiotomy and forceps....but I made it... ( just to let you know I usually never take chemical medicine - at least in the last 15 years... unless it is totally necessary... and so the effect of the peridural was intense and I am very very sensitive to such things, and so I asked for the minimum dose so that I could continue feeling the processes of birthing my son...)...Through pain and suffering came the most beautiful gift, the most miraculous event: my son and also the incredibly loving support of my partner.

The gift was also a total rebirth, when I came out of the hospital it was as though I was seeing through the eyes of my son...the sheer beauty and miracle of being alive and having made it out of that dreadful hospital, overwhelming my heart... although it took me a whole month just to be able to walk ok... I could barely walk leaving the hospital. Step by step, I healed... Everyday getting a little stronger..

This birth and the intensity of it, along with the pregnancy and the post partum has overall been a huge healing gift for me; despite the trials and challenges, truly, a great feminine healing... my son a waterfall of abundant blessings into my life. I even felt/know of a multidimensional healing taking place with this birth. 

So thank you!

surrender

2.a. Expect the Unexpected.

I prepared well for my birth, I prepared in the secret of my heart for an orgamisc birth ;) read the book and others... and/but yet... the very opposite happened.. I will not enter all the details but I just wished to share here that yes, one should really expect the unexpected for the birth event! 

3.Trust :

trust in my own body- because in the end I made it...it is something I already had before: the knowledge of the incredible strength of my body, spirit, mind, heart... but this experience lead this knowledge even further... because yes there was doubt nonetheless, there was fear... but there was courage because yes I am courageous being and I always have been. It is part of who I am. Yet being courageous isn't something one ponders about, it happens, and it doesn't mean the fear isn't there... long ago, whilst being attacked/surrounded by a group of stray dogs in Southern India, I have even known what it is to be paralised by fear... there and then an Angel leaped into my life and helped... again trust :)... but just to say that I have experienced great fear ( that dog experience being only one little experience amongst many many others)... and I must say that giving birth was one of those things giving me fear... Ok, I faced the fear, I did it... but I am still healing in my body, 9 months after. But this I know: On the other side of fear, there is LOVE. After the great trial, the great GIFT.

4. To Love the Feminine Body:

oh the Portal we are we Women... it is just incredible, it is just a complete total MIRACLE to be able to give birth, to have a being growing within for nine months and then to birth it/her/him... this cosmic traveler...becoming an earth dweller :)... So no matter our doubts, our fears, our sorrows... we must celebrate every inch of our bodies and nurture ourselves... to give life is the greatest gift... 

4.a. a Great Tempest is purifying

this birth event was the greatest tempest I have ever faced and I faced many before, I must say that this one served as a great wind blowing away the past storms... a "reset" :) a deep healing! Strength ever expanding, heart into infinity...

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